UnCovered review by Stephanie Baker, ACLS IT
Subscribing to belief that the book is always better than
the movie, I set out to read J.R. Moehringer’s
The Tender Bar
before
watching the Netflix adaption.
Typically, I’m not a reader of non-fiction and biographies.
I like to say there is “too much real world in my real world.” I read to escape.
However, as a bartender for 20 years, The Tender Bar called
to me. Moehringer’s memoir reads like a novel much like Steinbach’s Travels with Charlie and Hemmingway’s A Moveable Feast and, like Steinbeck and Hemmingway,
he too had his roots in journalism.
Moehringer perfectly captures the free flow,
stream-of-conscience, and wit of bar banter in his writing style as he records
the patrons’ exchanges on relationships, sports, politics, and great
literature. One of my favorite scenes is when J.R. walks into his beloved
neighborhood bar for the first time as legal drinking age. He must decide on his
“drink.” Will it be vodka, gin, whisky, scotch, bourbon? His decision is more
then what will sit in the glass in front of him. It will tell people who he is and set the
tone for night to come. While the existential contemplations and discussions
that occur in the bar may, for some, seem incongruous to the setting, these are
the parts of the book that rang the most true to me.
Ultimately, the book is more than just about a bar. It follows
the path of a boy as he shapes himself into a man. And, in the absence of a traditional father
figure, how he forms his identity dissecting the qualities and characteristics
of the men around him. Moehringer lives, and describes, his youth as an
observer. While this detachment may serve him well as a journalist, it hampers
his evolution into an adult. It’s not until the end, when he returns to his hometown
of Manhasset in the aftermath of 9/11 and gets a clear look beyond the smoke
filled bar room of his childhood, that we see his growth as a person and as a
writer.
Moehringer does a lot a lot falling off of bar
stools, literally and figuratively, but he makes it to “last call” standing
straight up and leaving behind a cast of personalities that you may recognize and
will always remember